Infatuation
Infatuation is the state of being completely lost in the emotion of unreasoning desire.
Urgency, intensity, sexual desire, anxiety, high-risk choices, reckless abandonment of what was once valued. (Virginity)
Reckless commitment to satisfy one's all-consuming lust.
All-consuming euphoria similar to recreational drug use (addictive chemical reactions in the brain), stupidity (cupidity). Can risk everything for the next hit of adrenalin.
Being controlled by brain chemistry, not the heart, loss of ability to make rational evaluations of what is true, valuable and worthy.
This is temporary in life and ends after some period.
Here is a quote from an 18 year old girl that has met her first love --
"This guy. This romance. These feelings...... Oh my word. They can be good, sad at times, overwhelming, challenging, time consuming, miserable, can make one insecure, make me feel older than I am at times, make me feel stupid, happy, exciting, exhilarating, peaceful, paining, questioning and sooooooo much more. This is my first ever real relationship and it at times can be so much and other times feeling so aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah- small."
When I saw this picture I had to include it in a post because it captures the overwhelming emotions of infatuation.
It leaves us nearly helpless, and many a fool has been made because of it. Every relationship we have is important, a chance to learn, about the person, but more importantly, about ourselves.
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