Maybe too much, maybe not enough, but this is how I lay it out.

Marriage vows to Christ

Do you solemnly swear to put your life in the hands of Christ; so much as you are able at this moment in time?

Will you determine to seek purity and goodness by His strength to guide and enable you?

Will you seek peace and turn from violence, so help you God?

Will you extend your hand to help the poor, the least, the last and the lost?

Will you let the mercy of Christ teach you how to forgive all who have sinned against you?

Do you swear to seek honesty in all your ways, so help you God?

Will you seek justice, show mercy and be faithful to all? Beginning with family, friends and to the stranger so much as lies within you?

If you have said yes, I pronounce you a child of God, washed in His blood, forgiven, clean and blameless, born again and adopted into the kingdom of God.