"The time will come soon enough when
your child's confidence in you will diminish. The growth of his own reason and
the development of his powers will lead him with a sudden impulse to examine
every thing. If he finds, as he certainly will find, the results of his
reasoning different in some respects from those you have given him, far from
being now inclined to receive your assertions as proofs, he will rather feel
disinclined to any opinion you profess, and struggle to free himself from the
net you have woven about him.
The calm repose of his mind is broken, the
placid lake, is become clouded, and reflects distorted and broken images of
things: but don't be alarmed at the new workings of his thoughts, -- it is the
angel of reason which descends and troubles the waters. To strive to influence
by your authority would be useless now as it was favorable before. Lie by in
silence, and wait for the result. Do not expect the mind of your son to
resemble yours, as your figure is reflected by the image in the glass; he was
formed, like you, to use his own judgment, and he claims the high privilege of
his nature. His reason is mature; his mind must now form itself. Happy must you
esteem yourself, if amidst all lesser differences of opinion, and the wreck of
many of your favorite ideas, he still preserves those radical and primary
truths which are essential to his happiness, and which different trains of
thought and opposite modes of investigation will very often equally lead to." Anna
Laetitia Barbauld.
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