"There are two kinds of self-denial. There is a self-denial which exists in separation from the world; it is the sacrifice of giving up, and doubtless it has its pain. But there is another and a more arduous self-denial -- that which consists in taking on. There is a sacrifice which only comes by union with the world; you will find it in the meeting with your brother man. It is a much easier thing for you to give up than to take on. It is where man meets man that your sacrifice begins. To sink yourself in the interest of a fellow-sinner, to merge yourself in sympathy with a creature of the dust - this puts the hermit's life to shame." George Matheson.