Do you still date your wife? 

I think it's important to think of dating as "marriage insurance." There is not a couple that is immune to marital problems, and if we neglect our spouse we threaten all we hold dear. 

To have a thriving marriage, which allows us to share our joy with everyone in the household, it is the product of time and effort, joy and fun together alone with our spouse. 

Somewhere near half of all marriages fail, it is no doubt the half that fails are the couples that fail to prioritize their relationship. Best way I know of to ruin a good marriage is to have no intimate, romantic, fun filled experiences together.

 In successful businesses they have weekly meetings, some have daily meetings, a marriage is infinitely more difficult than running a business. So invest in your marriage! 

Help insure its success by making time for each other, every one will benefit.

Far better to have less income than face the enormous costs of divorce, both financially and emotionally. The happiness of those in the household, each person being nurtured, shown time and affection each day, made to feel loved, secure and protected is what everyone will remember in the years ahead. The luxury items, toys, size of the home or car, all pale in comparison to a loving home. That's my story and I'm stick'n to it!