I'm really enjoying the thoughts of William Ellery Channing, so I thought I'd share a piece from his chapter on Self-control. He explains how we differ from animals regarding appetites and how excess can damage us.
In my fifty plus years as a Christian, I've seen many distractions hinder the true work of Christ. I was saved a year before the book, The Late Great Planet Earth came out, and many flooded the seminars, conventions and sat under teachers and pastors as the End Times Theology dominated much of the church's time, money and resources. Then there was the divide between charismatics and non charismatics; and for years some claimed tongues are the sign of the Holy Spirit while others strenuously opposed. The arguing went on; one side decrying the "social gospel" and the other side fiercely promoting old ways and systematic theology. The 80's brought the church front and center in the political arena with the "Silent Majority" spreading the new gospel. The Calvinist and the Armenian continue their divisions, and today we are examining the sheep to see if there fur reveals any "liberal/progressive" wolves hair!
All the while poor Lazarus sits at our gate, lost, destitute, addicted, wounds gaping while he hungers for just a few crumbs from our table.
So brethren, "choose your battles wisely because if you fight them all you'll be too tired to win the really important ones."
"You will bring with you from your books and solitary reveries a wrong measure of men and things, unless you correct it by careful experience and mixed observation.
You will raise your standard of character as much too high at first, and from disappointed expectation, it will sink too low afterwards. But you had, after all, better wait and see what things are than try to anticipate the results. You know more of a road by having travelled it than by all the conjectures and descriptions in the world.
You will find the business of life conducted on a much more varied and individual scale than you would expect. People will be concerned about a thousand things that you have no idea of, and will be utterly indifferent to what you feel the greatest interest in. You will find good and evil, folly and discretion, more mingled, and the shades of character running more into each other than they do in the ethical charts. No one is equally wise or guarded at all points, and it is seldom that any one is quite a fool.
Do not be surprised when you go out into the world to find men talk exceedingly well on different subjects who do not derive their information immediately from books. Common sense is not a monopoly, and experience and observation are sources of information open to the common man of the world as well as to the educated student. If you may know more of the outline and principles, he knows more of the details and practice of life. A man may give a singular account of the method of drying teas in China without being a profound chemist. It is the vice of scholars to suppose that there is no knowledge in the world but that of books. If you want to avoid it I urge you and thereby save yourself the pain and mortification that must ensue from finding out your mistake continually." William Hazlitt.

"The Queen of Sheba came to King Solomon and spoke with him about all that was in her heart." 1Kings 10:2
If we are truly "walking in the spirit", we too will have others coming to open their hearts to us. We are told to "Examine ourselves to see if we are in the faith", this is a good measuring stick.
I saw this on a web-site that had many dark posts and it was obvious they suffered a great deal of trauma; and when we have, it's so hard to trust anyone; so this quote of hers is so haunting. May all Christians seek to learn from the mind of Christ, how to unlock the hearts of the hurting. "The fields are ripe and ready to harvest..."
A Christian minister should beware of offering interpretations of Scripture which are repugnant to any clear discoveries of reason or dictates of conscience. This admonition is founded upon the very obvious principle, that a revelation of God must be adapted to the rational and moral nature which He has conferred on man; that God can never contradict in His Word what he has Himself written on the human heart, or teaches in His works and providence.
All those interpretations of the Gospel which strike the mind at once as inconsistent with a righteous government of the universe, which require of man what is disproportioned to his nature, or which shock any clear conviction which our experience has furnished, cannot be viewed with too jealous an eye by him who, revering Christianity, desires to secure to it an intelligent belief.
I answer too, that all sects of Christians agree, and are forced to agree, in frequently forsaking the literal sense on account of its incongruity with acknowledged truth.
There is, in fact, no book in the world which requires us more frequently to restrain unlimited expressions, to qualify the letter by the spirit, and to seek the meaning in the state and customs of the writer and of his age, than the New Testament. No book is written in a more popular, figurative, and animated style -- the very style which requires the most constant exercise of judgment in the reader.
The Scriptures are not a frigid digest of Christianity, as if this religion were a mere code of civil laws. They give us the Gospel warm from the hearts of its preachers. The language is not that of logicians, not the language of retired and inanimate speculation, but of affection, of zeal, of men who burned to convey deep and vivid impressions of truth. In understanding such writers, moral feeling is often a better guide than a servile adherence to the literal and most obvious meaning of every word and phrase. It may be said of the New as well as the Old Testament, that sometimes the letter killeth whilst the spirit gives life.
Almost any system may be built on the New Testament by a commentator who, forgetting the general scope of Christianity and the lessons of nature and experience, shall impose on every passage the literal signification which is first offed to the mind. The Christian minister should avail himself, in his exposition of the Divine word, of the aids of learning and criticism, and also of he aids of reasons and conscience. Those interpretations of difficult passages which approve themselves to his clear and established conceptions of rectitude, and to his devout and benevolent affections, he should regard with a favorable eye; whilst those of an opposite character should be regarded with mistrust."
We preach Christ, says Paul, "warning ever man, and teaching every man, that we may present every man perfect in Christ Jesus."
We should preach that we may make men perfect Christians; perfect, not according to the standard of the world but according to the law of Christ; perfect in heart and in life, in solitude and in society, in the great and in the common concerns of life. Here is the purpose of Christian preaching.
It demands that our piety be fervent, our benevolence unbounded, and our thirst for righteousness strong and insatiable. The Gospel enjoins inflexible integrity, fearless sincerity, fortitude which despises pain and tramples pleasure under foot in the pursuit of duty, and an independence of spirit which no scorn can deter and no example seduce from asserting truth and adhering to the cause which conscience approves. With this spirit of martyrs, the Gospel calls us to unite the mildest and meekest virtues; a sympathy which melts over other's woes; a disinterestedness which finds pleasure in toils and labors for other's good; a humility which loves to bless unseen, and forgets itself in the performance of the noblest deeds; a love which counts no service hard, and a penitence which esteems no judgment severe; a gratitude which offers praise even in adversity; a holy trust unbroken by protracted suffering, and a hope triumphant over death. In one word, it enjoins that loving and confiding in Jesus Christ, we make His spotless character, His heavenly life, the model of our own. Such is the greatness of character which the Gospel demands, and such is the end to which our preaching should ever be directed." W.E.Channing.
This is such an insightful quote; learning to listen to what a person does NOT say is so important. Whether it's your spouse, child, family, friend or stranger. It's a key component in consoling the downcast and also evaluating a sermon or teaching. I, for one, when listening to a preacher, listen to hear if he mentions the poor, the downcast and all who have fallen between the cracks; if Jesus found it necessary to stress the importance of the poor and hurting by word and deed, then I find it a necessary that who I choose to sit under recognizes it as well.
Of course topics on all subjects need to be taught, but even a closing prayer will show a lot.
So take heart isolated one, you've got a friend in Jesus!
Taken from W.E. Channing.
What is it that is to be loved in Christ? Why are we to hold him dear? I answer, there is but one ground for virtuous affection in the entire universe, but one object worthy of cherished and enduring love, whether in heaven or on earth, and that is Moral Goodness.
I make no exceptions. My principle applies to all beings, to the Creator as well as to His creatures. The claim of God to the love of his rational offspring rests on the rectitude and benevolence of His will. It is the moral beauty and grandeur of His character to which alone we are bound to pay homage. The only power which can and ought to be loved is a beneficent and righteous power. The creation is glorious, and binds us to supreme and everlasting love to God, only because it sprung from and shows forth this "energy of goodness"; nor has any being a claim on love any further than this same energy dwells in him and is manifested in him. I know of no exception to this principle.
I can conceive of no being who can have any claim to affection but what rests on his character, meaning by this the spirit and principles which constitute his mind, and from which he acts; nor do I know but one character which entitles a being to our hearts, and it is that which the Scriptures express by the word Righteousness; which in man is often called Virtue -- in God, Holiness; which consists essentially in supreme reverence for and adoption of what is right; and of which benevolence, or universal charity, is the brightest manifestation." William Ellery Channing.
In the past it may have been your habit to move very quickly from one verse of Scripture to another until you had read the whole passage. Perhaps you were seeking to find the main point of the passage. But try not reading quickly, read very slowly not moving from one passage to another, not until you have sensed the very heart of what you have read.
You may then want to take that portion of Scripture that has touched you, and turn it into prayer.
After you have sensed something of the passage and after you know that the essence of that portion has been extracted and all the deeper sense of it is gone, then, very slowly, gently, and in a calm manner begin to read the next portion of the passage. You will be surprised to find that when your time with the Lord has ended, you will have read very little, probably no more than a half a page." Madame Guyon, Experiencing the depths of Jesus Christ.
When I saw this beautiful woman, and how she had been disfigured by some person's rage, it immediately reminded me of Christ's stern command to "Seek justice, show mercy and be faithful." The world, religions, races and cultures are in chaos, and more than ever, Christ is the answer! Help me Lord work for you! Disturb me Lord! Let me not live in slumber.
The bottom one is also one I like, and I suppose we all like to think we're that way, but some people are very much at ease in crowds and around strangers, that's not me.
"The only power to oppose evil is love - strong, enduring love -- a benevolence which no crime or wretchedness can conquer, and which therefore can conquer all. Miserable indeed will your position be if this spirit does not possess you, if a deep sympathy with your suffering fellow-creatures does not compel you, as it were, to seek their homes and identify with them.
Nothing but Christ's spirit, that which carried Him to His cross, can carry you through your work. Go then, with this love, and it will be mightier than the sword of the magistrate, or the armies of monarchs to conquer evil. This spirit will touch the heart which has hardened itself against all other influences. It will pierce the conscience which is impregnable against the most vehement rebuke. It will say to the reckless transgressor, in the only language he can understand, that he is not an outcast from his race; and it will reveal to the desponding sufferer a love higher than your own, and bring back his lost faith in God. William Ellery Channing.
"The tongue is like a sharp razor." Ps. 52:2
"The tongue is a fire." Ja. 3:6
Which of us has not been betrayed by a lying tongue? Who has not felt loss, anguish and hurt by a deceitful tongue of another, or our own.
But a soothing tongue, a healing tongue, is a tree of life. Ps. 15:4
O Lord, may I guard my heart and curb my tongue!
Hunger, thirst, sickness, the refugee and foreigner, those in need of clothing and those imprisoned, are problems we will always have with us. On the great day of judgment, how we responded now will be all that matters then. Matt. 25:31-46
"It is exceedingly hard to dispute without gaining some invisible prejudice and good liking for the opinion we defend. So devoted are we to ourselves, that self love too easily engages our favor to the cause we have espoused, and for no other reason than because we espoused it. Though we may have had no kindness before for an opinion that we maintain for disputing sake, yet if a plausible and smiling argument for it occurs in our hasty thoughts, how prone are we to hug the creature of our brain, and be almost in love with the opinion for the sake of argument and we are insensibly captivated to esteem any thing that proceeds from ourselves. There is a certain wantonness of wit in youth, and a pleasing ambition of victory, which works in a young warm spirit, much stronger than a desire for truth. Upon the first sight of an objection against our arguments, our thoughts are strangely hurried away to ransack the brain for a reply, and we torture our invention to make our side have the last word."
"Those things we see in scripture that we morally admire; we are practically bound to pursue. Human duties ...