"Those with a tendency to love create their own objects to love; 
Those with a tendency to fear create their own objects to fear." Sydney J. Harris.

My first thought in reading this was that those who have a tendency to love may choose objects
that are unworthy of love, considering romantic attractions that draw us with physical attraction and little else. But the more I reflected, I think it may also apply to those optimists who find the good in
others and are discoverers of spirits.